Anonymous asked: hi sharee. im a 15 year old girl, and i dont really know what to do anymore at this point. im 169 pounds and im 5'1. im short and fat. i hate my body, i hate looking in the mirror, i dont fit into any clothes. i've seriously given up, and i need someone to tell me what to do.. i couldn't even get a date to homecoming because of the way i look. not one guy wants to come with in 2 feet of me. im repulsive, i need your help. please tell me how i can reach atleast 140. please help, :( thank you.
You’re not repulsive. You’re stuck with your body FOR LIFE. And if you continue to hate your one and only body you will be miserable the rest of your life.
You can only improve and become the the best version of YOU. Your body will always be your body. So please stop hating yourself and bashing your own body.
Self love is your first step to becoming a healthy you.
Weight is not equal to happiness or beauty. There will ALWAYS be someone skinnier and smaller than you. So do not think that weight defines your self worth. If you do not love yourself now. You will not love yourself when you’re smaller. You will still have bad days and insecurities. You will just wear a smaller size when you face your problems. But they don’t go away.
Boys will not flock to you when you lose weight. I found the most hurtful things said to me when I lost all my weight by guys: where did your boobs go, are you a crack head, you looked better with meat on your bones, when was meth a Weight loss supplement…etc.
Skinny does not mean people will automatically be attracted to you. There will ALWAYS be jerks in the world.
Your beauty is not defined by who many guys find you attractive.
Focus on learning to love yourself, being active and learning to make healthy food choices. Happiness is your choice. Don’t leave it for others to decide your happiness.